A Few Words

by on March 7, 2010

Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School

Pauca Verba (a few words)

Number 15 – March 7, 2010

Today is the Third Sunday of Lent. The word Lent comes from an Old English word meaning Springtime! What are you doing these Lenten days that’s bringing about some kind of springtime in your life?

While some people at school are struggling to keep the sugar fast – it’s a good Lenten-idea to do some kind of physical fasting. As our bodies were/are involved in sinning – our arguing, fighting, nastiness, etc. – so our bodies should be involved in the penitential “I repent – I’m sorry.”

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One of the best Lenten-ideas is making a very thorough and heartfelt confession. Confession is good for the soul the saying goes. Confession is good for the inner man, the inner woman. In Confession I stand before God: “God, this is who I am – cleanse me, renew me, heal me.” An Examination of Conscience helps us to look inside – deeply – to discover where we have gone to the distant land – far from God – like the boy in the story Jesus told in Luke 15. But all the more, in Confession we hear the Father’s voice – the Father who stood on tip-toe, filled with a watchful merciful love, anticipating the wasted boy’s return. Check it out: Luke 15 – the lamb, the coin, the boy – it’s about us!

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A Prayer to Pacify Hateful Feelings

We thank You, O Master and Lord of humankind, King of the ages and Giver of every good thing, Who destroys the wall of hatred and Who grants peace to the world. Instill in me a love for You and fear of anything that would take me from You and confirm me in love for other people. Extinguish every dispute and banish every temptation to bitterness and disagreement. For You are our Peace, and to You we send up glory: to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and to the ages of ages. Amen.

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There’s a “don’t mess” – “God’s honest truth” Examination of Conscience with a blue cover available for anyone who cares to go there. Father Stephen has written it and it’s titled, “Dare you!…Double Dare You!” It doesn’t just ask questions but it’s full of teaching – and challenges that might make us squirm. It’s yours for the asking if you’ll use it. It’s based on the Ten Commandments. Do I even know them?

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In the Lenten time – check this out – check this out: Matthew 23:1-12. Knowing Jesus, following Jesus, loving Jesus, claiming Jesus, means getting rid of power, prestige, titles, control over others. Who’s the greatest? Who’s first? The immigrant, the ones who are paid the least, the people at the bottom of the cultural/economic pile, the ones who are taking “too long” to die, the baby in the womb, the ones in the minority, the people who are still being called mean and dirty names, the ones we think we can do without – the people in the following news service article. Where’s your heart? With the man on the cross or with the prince of the world?

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Lost Limbs redefine life for thousands of Haiti quake victims

by Deborah Sontag – New York Times News Service

Port –au-Prince, Haiti

“Don’t cut off my leg!” Fabienne Jean screamed repeatedly as they carried her through the gates of the General Hospital here after the earthquake. “I’m a dancer. My leg is my livelihood. Please, don’t take my leg.”

After four days on the hospital’s cluttered grounds, lying among what she described as the “dead and living all mixed up,” Jean was wheeled into an operating tent where her crushed, infected right leg was amputated below the knee.

“It’s a sad story, Jean, 31, a slim, graceful former dancer with the Haitian National Theater, said recently, massaging her bandaged stump. “But what can I do? I can’ kill myself because of this, so I have to learn to live with it.”

More than a month after the earthquake, thousands of new amputees are facing the reality of living with disabilities in a shattered country whose terrain and culture have never been hospitable to the disabled.

Some remain in hospital tents swarming with flies; others have moved to makeshift post surgical centers. Those who healed quickly, like Jean, have been discharged to the streets where they now live. All need continuing care in a nation with no rehabilitation hospital, few physical therapists, no central prosthesis factory since the quake and a skeletal supply of crutches, canes and wheelchairs.

“The situation for newly disabled persons is very delicate,” said Michel Pean, Haiti’s Secretary of State for the Integration of the Disabled. “They urgently need not only medical care but food and a place to live. Also, we cannot forget those disabled before the disaster who, because of their handicap, are having trouble getting access to humanitarian aid.”

Rough estimates of the number of new amputees are based on information from overburdened hospitals that did not keep good records of surgeries. The Haitian government believes that 6,000 to 8,000 people have lost limbs, fingers or toes. Many thousands more suffered complicated breaks and fractures, some of which could turn into amputations if not managed well.

Jewish Class to Heal Suffering

by on March 3, 2010

By Luke V.

Rabbi Michele Medwin, Jewish Student Advisor at The Family Foundation School has started a new class to help the Jewish students that have distress in their lives. The class focuses on Healing from Despair, a book written by Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz. The book is comprised of certain sections. The first section of the book is Rabbi Spitz’s journey of overcoming his depression. Other sections of the book contain accounts of other Rabbis and how they overcame their struggles. At the end of each chapter there are exercises to help individuals overcome their despair.

Rabbi Medwin read a book written by Rabbi Spitz called Does the Soul Survive? and loved it. When she saw his new book, Healing From Despair she thought it would be great for the Jewish students because we all have endured suffering and these students could get a Jewish perspective. Rabbi Medwin contacted Rabbi Spitz looking for some kind of break in purchasing the books for a group of students and was given eight copies for free. In return, Rabbi Spitz wanted to know how the students were utilizing the book and its exercises. Rabbi Medwin affirmed, “The way you heal is to do positive things for other people.” The book correlates with the 12 steps, doing God’s will and helping others.

The class meets Monday evenings every two to three weeks, depending on Rabbi Medwin’s and the student’s schedules to discuss and more completely understand the concept of each individual chapter. The hope that Rabbi Medwin has coming from this class is that the Jewish students find peace, “shalom”, with themselves and feel a sense of wholeness. Rabbi Medwin hopes that the teachings in the book can help the students find this inner peace and help others to as well.

A Few Words

February 26, 2010

The Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School
Pauca Verba (a few words)
Number 14 – February 28, 2010
What’s your life philosophy or code for living? Here’s Mother Teresa’s.
Life is an opportunity, avail it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is bliss, taste it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a [...]

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A Few Words

February 20, 2010

The Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School
Pauca Verba (a few words)
Number 13 – February 21, 2010
Dear Friend,
How are you? I just had to send a note to tell you how much I care about you.
I saw you yesterday as you were talking with your friends. I waited all day hoping you [...]

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A Few Words

February 11, 2010

The Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School
Pauca Verba (a few words)
Number 12 – February 14, 2010
The tabernacle is the “house” found beneath the crucifix in the chapel. The left over Communion is kept there for our worship – Christ uniquely present on this property.
The word tabernacle itself comes from the Latin [...]

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Episcopal Bible Study Class

February 10, 2010

By Luke V.
Father Liz Groskoph, Episcopal Priest, started an Episcopal Bible Study Class for students interested in learning more about their faith. A small group of students signed up to participate in this Bible Study Class held on Tuesday during Activity Periods.
Participants were requested to fill out a form asking why they wanted to [...]

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A Few Words

February 4, 2010

The Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School
Pauca Verba (a few words)
Number 11 – February 7, 2010
“If I lose gentleness, I lose a basic condition for uncovering the presence of God. I am already in the depths of my being. Gentleness is thus a pathway to the life of prayer.” (Adrian van [...]

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A Few Words

February 2, 2010

The Bulletin of the Catholic community at The Family Foundation School
Pauca Verba (a few words)
Number 10 – January 31, 2010
Miracle Prayer
Lord Jesus Christ, I come before you just as I am. I am sorry for my sins. I repent for my sins, please forgive me. In your name I forgive all others for whatever they [...]

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Holiday Dinner

February 1, 2010

There will be a special program during dinner tonight for the Jewish students to celebrate the Jewish holiday of Tu B’Shevat.  The students are asked to get dinner, silver ware and cups from their families and join Rabbi Michele in Serenity Hall.
Tu B’shevat (which means the 15th of the Jewish month of Shevat) is called [...]

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Wholeness in a broken world

January 20, 2010

Rabbi Michele Medwin shared that she recently read a wonderful book called “Healing from Despair: Choosing Wholeness in a Broken World” by Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz.  Because she thought the book could be of help to some of the students, she got in touch with the author.
Said Medwin, “I told him about the work I [...]

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