December 2007

A Few Words

by admin on December 30, 2007

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin

Pauca Verba – ( A Few Words)

What Will Matter

Ready or not, someday it will all come to an end.

There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days.

All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else.

Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance. It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.

Your grudges, resentments, frustration and jealousies will finally disappear. So, too your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.

The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.

It won’t matter where you came from, or on what side of the tracks you lived at the end.

It won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant. Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?

How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built, not what you got, but what you gave.

What will matter is not your success, but your significance. What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught.

What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example. What will matter is not your competence, but your character.

What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you’re gone.

What will matter are not your memories, but the memories that live in those who loved you.

What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident. It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.

Choose to live a life that matters.

Michael Josephson

“With hurricanes, earthquakes, fires out of control, mud slides, tornadoes, flooding and severe thunderstorms tearing up the country, with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?”

Jay Leno

A Few Words

by admin on December 24, 2007

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin

Pauca Verba – ( A Few Words)

Buon Natale!

There is sadness or poignancy with us always, but somehow Christmas brings it into sharper focus – we feel things more deeply perhaps this time of year.

The heart of the Catholic parish is the Mass. So at Christmas – at Mass – from the community’s heart – we remember prayerfully – the sick, the lonely, and those who are away from us. We remember those who have gone from us since last Christmas and those who are depressed or fearful. And we hear the angel’s message to all the world, “Do not be afraid; there’s good news!”

Jesus was born in the nighttime – name the night. Joseph and Mary were fatigued – name the fatigue. Jesus was born into an oppressive occupation – name the oppression and all that’s pre-occupying. Take heart! God is close to us – Jesus, born of Mary!

To believe in God is to let God be God. To believe in God is to accept that despite appearances – the decline, the decay, the death – God is allowing this and for God’s own reasons. Can I ponder this? But all the more ponder (with and like Mary) that God’s Word – God’s Self-gift and expression has joined us in it all. And that marvelous identification with us began at once – “shivering in the cave as cold as ice,” the Italian carol tells.

The older I get and the longer I am at this – the more I understand and value that there is indeed a priestly heart. It is a wounded, suffering heart – a troubled and burdened heart. But it is also, and exceedingly more, a grateful heart, a heart of light and delight, a heart filled with beauty, goodness and gratitude. I thank all who draw near and share this.

The little Child of Bethlehem bless you then – and bless your families and your friends. Indeed, may he bless us all with a new year filled with thankfulness for his mercies, a felt need for the things he alone offers and promises, and a deep sense of solidarity with and love for each other.

With a blessing at Christmas!

Father Stephen

A Few Words

December 9, 2007

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin Pauca Verba – ( A Few Words) We are in the darkest days of the year, at least in our hemisphere. It seems that all the emphasis and energy is spent on the preparation of the outer Christmas – the food, the shopping, the spending of money, the [...]

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