From the monthly archives:

July 2009

A Few Words

by on July 26, 2009

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin

Pauca Verba (a few words)

What a pity it is when people are more concerned with growing their body parts than their consciences. Conscience is that inner power to discern right from wrong: the voice of the inner man/woman which says, “No, not that way, but this.” Of course, conscience can be suffocated, even killed, or it can be nurtured, informed, grown-up, enlightened, made sensitive. Listen to Jesus. Listen to the saints. Listen to people who HAVE a conscience.

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Laughter is the first thing we do to prove, “I’m in.”  Be still this week: watch and listen. Be an observer. See how much ridiculous laughter there is. How people pretend to “get” what’s so funny. To prove they’re in, simply because they’re laughing. But look at yourself first.

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The term teenager was only invented in the 1940’s. Before that, the term was young person or young adult. The older terms (especially young adult) carry with them a sense of direction, promise, hope. Teen or Teenager sounds more like a term we might use for an excuse. “Well, what do you expect….teens.” In parts of Africa, where life is difficult in ways we can’t appreciate as pampered Americans, 13 year olds are given automatic rifles to fight. However sad that is: 13 year olds being trained for killing signifies that we’re the only ones living with this idea of teenage adolescence – even perpetual adolescence.

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Young Catholic! Want to begin responding to the questions and issues I’ve been raising of late about lust? Begin with your wardrobe. What does your clothing say? Are you advertising? Are you very conscious of your clothes and body messages during the day? (Maybe you should be more than you are!) TRUTH! Do your clothes show more than is necessary? Do you really think it’s nice that your clothes climb up?

These barbeque days: Some of us are spread out over tables and lawns, all open and inviting, in poses that say come and look. That’s putting it delicately. Our lives won’t fall apart if we close our legs. “Cover yourself” doesn’t have to mean wrap yourself in a blanket, if that’s what we’re afraid of.

Our society is hypocritical in its attitude toward handicapped children. On the one hand, we provide special parking and elevators for the handicapped. We talk tenderly about those poster children with MS, spina bifida, and leukemia. We are touched when we see the telethons, the March of Dimes, and the United Way ads. We sponsor the Special Olympics and cheer on the Down Syndrome competitors, speaking of the joy and inspiration they bring us. We watch with admiration a television series that stars a Down Syndrome young man. But when we hear that a woman is carrying one of these very children, we way, “Kill it before it is born.”  (Pro-Life Answers to Pro-Choice Arguments by Randy Alcorn)

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“Here I am to do the will of God,

without delay,

without reserve,

without return,

by love. Amen.”   Father Michael Garicotis

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On August 15 the Church celebrates the Feast of the Assumption of Mary. It is the feast of Mary’s Easter, falling on a Saturday this year. The womb of the Virgin Mary (Jesus’ Mother) was God’s temple on earth. Jesus, alive and ascended to heaven, would not leave the body of his Mother here to decay. In her Assumption, Mary anticipates our own resurrection of body and soul. It is a feast of tremendous joy and promise.

Today, July 26: The Feast of the parents of the Virgin Mary, Sts. Joachim and Anna. How beautifully they must have raised her! Pray for your grandparents today and give thanks for the gift of Mary in your life.

A Few Words

by on July 19, 2009

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin

Pauca Verba (a few words)

Did you hear the gospel words today: “Jesus said to the apostles, ‘Come away by yourselves to a deserted place and rest awhile.’” This is what we do when we go on retreat. Admittedly we go with each other – but the retreat house is a quieter place, inviting reflection, deeper prayer, some time of silence, a bit of rest. Jesus knows what we need.

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Some of us here are working hard to get in shape. Young men especially like to ‘press’ and ‘pump’ and ‘lift.’ Some guys do it to impress themselves about themselves or to get attention. Some people enjoy the sensuality of themselves (hours of mirror time.)  Some just like being strong. Read on!

The Missionaries of Charity (founded by Mother Teresa of Calcutta) is made up of thousands of religious sisters and a much smaller community of brothers. The brothers do the hard work of lifting that the sisters often cannot do. They carry the dead to the morgue. They lift the dying up out of the streets, they pick up the elderly, the weak and the sick so they can be bathed. You need to be strong to do this kind of work. Get the connection?

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The Missionaries of the Poor are an order of Brothers founded by Father Richard HoLung. They do their work all throughout Africa, Central and South America and Asia. Their community rule states that after the morning prayers, each brother is to go out into the streets to find the most dirty, abandoned person they can find. “You are to clean up all the mess,” the rule says. In a telephone conversation I asked one of the brothers why there are no Americans in their rapidly growing order but many Africans and Asians. He answered, (to my shame) “You are too weak; you can’t do it.” This, to a country that makes Marines and Navy Seals! But what does this brother know???

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So much rain these days and weeks. Listen to part of Psalm 147: 8-11.

Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving;

make melody to our God upon the harp.

He covers the heavens with clouds,

He prepares rain for the earth,

He makes grass grow upon the hills.

and with plants to serve man’s needs.

He provides the beasts with their food,

and to the young ravens which call upon him.

His delight is not in the strength of the horse,

nor his pleasure in warriors’ strength.

But the Lord takes pleasure in those who revere him,

in those who hope in his steadfast love.

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Saint Ita of Killeedy is the best-known Irish woman saint after Saint Brigid. The name Ita means: thirst for holiness. Her father found a wealthy “guy for her” and was opposed to her proposal to take a vow of virginity. She undertook the arduous pilgrimage by foot to the mountain of Sliabh Luachra, in the south-west part of Limerick – the site being pointed out by angels (why not?) – and there joined by other women from neighboring towns and clans. She started a school for boys many of whom eventually became recognized as saints – earning her the title: “Foster mother of the saints of Ireland.” She founded a monastery of men and women and insisted on keeping only four acres for the place – refusing all offers for larger property as property signified worldly power.

Saint Brendan once asked Ita what were the three works most pleasing to God, and the three works most displeasing to him. Ita answered, “Three things that please God most are true faith in God with a pure heart, a simple life with a grateful spirit, and generosity inspired by charity. The three things that most displease God are a mouth that hates people, a heart harboring resentments, and confidence in wealth.” She died in 570.

Her monastery, like so many in Ireland, was probably destroyed by the Viking invaders in the ninth century. Her grave is now in the ruins of a Romanesque church built on the site of the monastery, still a place of pilgrimage and often decorated with flowers. Her feast is celebrated throughout Ireland.

A Few Words

July 12, 2009

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin Pauca Verba (a few words) Someone recently wrote who had come back to the practice of her Catholic life after being away for many years. She came out to The Family School for her Confession. Listen to what she wrote: “You heard my first confession after many, many [...]

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A Few Words

July 5, 2009

The Family Foundation School Catholic Community Bulletin Pauca Verba (a few words) Prayers and help from the Bible. Check it out! When you feel unloved                                       Romans 8:35-39 When in need                                                      John 14 When you have sinned                          Psalm 51 When you are worried Matthew 6:19-34 When feeling blah Psalm [...]

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Bishop Adams Visits FFS

July 1, 2009

By Henry W. Reverends Ralph and Liz Groskoph invited Central New York Diocesan Bishop Skip Adams to spend lunch with students from The Family Foundation School, on Tuesday, June 9. A number of students signed up to eat lunch with the bishop, as well as ask him about his life and his work. After lunch, [...]

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