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March 2010

The Jewish holiday of Passover begins on Monday, March 29th and lasts for 7 or 8 days. (Jews living in Israel and all Reform Jews celebrate for 7 days as described in the Torah. Conservative and Orthodox Jews who live outside of Israel observe Passover for eight days based on a tradition that allowed for “calendar” errors in the days before formal calendars.)

In the first of the Ten Commandments, God says, “I am your God, who brought you out of Egypt.” (Exodus 20:2) Leading the people of Israel from slavery to freedom is integral to Jews are part of our history.

About 4000 years ago, God led Abraham to the land of Israel where he settled with his family. Three generations later, drought brought the Israelite (word to describe the original Jews) people down to Egypt where food was more plentiful. After generations of living in Egypt in peace, the Israelites were forced into slavery by a new Pharaoh. God called on Moses, who was living in Midian, to return to Egypt to free his people. Pharaoh was very stubborn and it took ten plagues for him to change his mind and finally allows the Israelites to leave so they could worship their God and return to the land of Israel. Today, Jews embrace many teachings from this story including our commitment to freedom and justice for others and maintaining hope during difficult times, as the Israelites did standing at the Red Sea with Pharaoh’s army closing in behind them. (Pharaoh changed his mind again after finally agreeing to let the Israelites go.) The Passover story includes the miracle of the parting of the waters of the Red Sea, so the Israelites could finally escape to freedom.

The Torah commands us to teach this story and its lessons to our children so each year we have a Passover seder using food symbols to tell the story. The Hebrew word seder means “order” and includes a Haggadah, (service booklet that tells the Passover story), with a set order of how to proceed during the seder. Jews around the world have seders in their homes on the first and second days of Passover. It is a time for family to get together and celebrate. For some families who are spread around the country and the world, they make a special effort to be together for this holiday.

Below is a spiritual interpretation of some of the symbols, prayers and readings talked about at the Passover seder. Many of these teachings are relevant to our students at the family school.

Wishing you a happy and healthy holiday season,

Rabbi Michele

PASSOVER SYMBOLS THROUGH A SPIRITUAL LENS

KIDDUSH – Blessing Over Wine/Fruit of the Vine

Kiddush offers us a lovely introduction to the rituals of Passover because it embodies the perfect balance between spirituality and religion. We acknowledge the Creator of the fruit of the vine, when we say the blessing over wine or grape juice. The wine represents the spiritual essence in the ritual. But the cup itself is not dispensable. The cup represents the religious form that is provided to give shape and containment to our spiritual practice.

So it is with the Seder. The point of the Seder is the spiritual uplift, insight and growth we can accomplish that night. Pursuing those goals requires a container to channel and guide our spiritual experience and progress. That’s why the Seder is called “seder”, which means “order.”

The theme of Passover and the Seder is liberation. It is interesting to note that by going through an ordered seder, we are taught that freedom does not mean “doing what ever we want.” The Seder begins with Kiddush to teach that we need order and structure to obtain true freedom.

AVADIM HAYINU – WE WERE SLAVES IN EGYPT
(During the seder we are asked to imagine that we ourselves, were also slaves.)

Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto draws an analogy between the Pharaoh’s strategy of forcing the Israelites to work non-stop, and the tactics employed by the negative inclination that abides in each of us. Just as Pharaoh used busyness to deflect the people, so are we all whipped into hyper-activity by the adversary within us. This potent negative inner force urges us to be so busy that will not only be distracted from reaching our goals, but even from setting goals. So many good things to do, so many activities, needs, desires, things… that we haven’t got a moment of freedom to consider who we might be, what we might do, what we might free ourselves from.

THE FOUR CHILDREN: Wise, Wicked, Simple, One Who Doesn’t Know How to Ask

Rabbi Israel Salanter used to say “We all have all four children in each of us.” In the course of our lives or even in a single day, we might play all four roles. At one moment we are wise, giving wise counsel to our friends and making good decisions. But in the next, we might well be wicked, caught up in pointless rebellious, contempt of something good, or cynical. At times we are all simple, characterized by naivete or innocence or gullibility. And there are times when we don’t know what to do, because we are bewildered, or clueless, or dull.

Can you take ownership of your wisdom as well as your evil, your simplicity as well as your stunned silence? Can you hear all four answers in the Haggadah applying to you?

THE TEN PLAGUES
(Read after the reading on pg. 28)
“God said to Moses, ‘Say to Aaron – Take your staff and stretch out your hand over the waters of Egypt…’” (Exodus 7:19).
Rashi notices that it is Aaron, not Moses, who initiates this plague, and he comments that this is to teach us gratitude. Because the Nile protected Moses when he was an infant, it would not have been fitting for Moses to strike the Nile to start the plagues of blood or frogs. This teaching spurs us to consider the place of gratitude in our own lives. If Moses was meant to be so grateful to the river, we ought to be inspired to look at our own lives to see where we also owe gratitude. The river sustained Moses. What sustains you?

The river served Moses involuntarily and yet he was so grateful that he had to restrain his hand from acting against it, even in the service of God’s will. Another way had to be found. And if he was required to show that much gratitude to a factor that served him involuntarily, how much more grateful should we be to people who offer us benefit in our lives, for people have free will, and their gifts to us are voluntary. To whom should you open your heart in gratitude?

MATZAH – UNLEAVENED BREAD
The Talmud tells us that leavened bread is the symbol of arrogance. Leavening causes bread to “puff up,” just as an arrogant person is inflated. Matzah, the Talmud informs us, is the symbol of humility. Humility – which means occupying your rightful space, being neither overblown, nor shrunken away in self-deprecation – is the core of soul-development. In the Seder, matzah is the middle of the 15 steps of the Seder, signifying the central role humility plays in the journey of growth.

At Passover time, we are forbidden even the tiniest crumb of bread, which is an image of how diligent we should be in ridding our hearts of arrogance and self-centeredness. When we eat matzah, we internalize the quality of humility and self-transcendence that is the essence of spirituality.

HILLEL SANDWHICH – Mixture of MAROR (bitter herbs) and CHAROSET (mixture of chopped apples, nuts, sugar and wine) with Matzah
We are suppose to eat bitter herbs to remind us of the suffering of the slaves.

A Few Words

by on March 27, 2010

The Weekly Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School

Pauca Verba (a few words)

Number 18 – March 28, 2010

Beginning with today, Passion Sunday (also known as Palm Sunday) we begin Holy Week. But isn’t every day a holy day; every week a holy week? Of course, as each is given to us as a gift by which we can come to know and love and serve God. But THIS week is given the name HOLY as it recalls the events in the Life of Jesus which saved us: Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday.

Blake and Kevin will be Baptized on Saturday night. They invite you to join them in prayer as they meet Jesus in the water for the first time, as they receive their First Communion (taking their place in the life of the Church around the altar) and as they are Confirmed – sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit who gives us spiritual gifts as we return to the Father.

Want to keep this a truly Holy Week? More silence, no moody sulking, but the silence that accompanies less talk, less inner noise, a deeper union with Jesus.

Want to keep this a truly Holy Week? Come to the three liturgies we will celebrate Thursday, Friday and Saturday evenings. They are very beautiful celebrations of what Jesus has done for love of us.

Want to keep this a truly Holy Week? Do some fasting. Do without seconds. No candy until Easter. Fast from complaining. Fast from condemning and criticizing people. This requires a great attentiveness.

Want to keep this a truly Holy Week? Avoid all argument, especially in the dorms. Practice small acts of anonymous charity. Read the Gospel accounts of Jesus’ Passion.

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The Savior has come today to the city of Jerusalem,

to fulfill the scriptures;

and the children have taken palms into their hands

and spread their garments

before him, knowing that he is our God,

to whom the cherubim sings without ceasing:

Hosanna in the highest!

Blessed are you who show great compassion for humanity,

Lord, have mercy upon us. (Byzantine Vespers)

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We’re each given a little bunch of greens today: a palm branch not unlike the branches used to welcome Jesus 2000 years ago; a pussy-willow branch, a sign of spring’s new life and growth; and a piece of boxwood, a slow-growing and hardy bush that survives the winter (symbol of our own survival, by God’s mercy); tied with a red ribbon to remind us of the Blood of Jesus shed for love of us. Even though they will dry out, keep these things near your bed during the year – a reminder to welcome Jesus each day with great joy.

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Baptism: When we were born, we had to pass through our mother’s water. “My water has broken” mom would call to dad or to her own mother as an excited way of saying you and I were on our way. And in Baptism, we draw near to the womb of the Church which is the font. And there we pass through water a second time to be born from above and to take our place in the new creature begun by Jesus – freed from our inner slavery – as the Hebrews passed through the waters of the Red Sea – to inner freedom – the freedom to live without faithless fears, from sin to grace, free to love others joyfully and generously.

Listen to the prayers and accompanying scripture verses as the newly baptized are clothed in white – flinging off the old clothes of our corruption – rotted through and through with lusts illusions. And the giving of Christ-light by which we are to walk through this world of shadows.

And there is the oil of Confirmation. The word Confirmation means, “Yes it’s so!” And the oil is called chrism. It is blessed only by a bishop which means that the Baptized Catholic is part of a church that extends back in time to Jesus (chrism=Christ) and that ancient faith is guarded throughout time by bishops who are fathers in the faith. And the oil is highly fragrant – that I would leave behind me, wherever I go, the fragrance of Christ. And the oil reflects light – that I would become a “child of the light” and bring about the things of light, dispelling darkness. And the oil-cross marks me as belonging to Christ – and so all other signs (including tattoos) are now obsolete as the cross, though invisible, remains throughout my life. And oil was used by ancient wrestlers – that I would evade Satan’s grip. Water, oil, clothing, light: cause for deep reflection!

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A Few Words

March 14, 2010

The Weekly Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School Pauca Verba (a few words) Number 16 – March 14, 2010 O Jesus, I have promised to serve thee to the end; be thou forever near me, my Master and my Friend. I shall not fear the battle if thou art by my [...]

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A Few Words

March 7, 2010

Bulletin of the Catholic Community at The Family Foundation School Pauca Verba (a few words) Number 15 – March 7, 2010 Today is the Third Sunday of Lent. The word Lent comes from an Old English word meaning Springtime! What are you doing these Lenten days that’s bringing about some kind of springtime in your [...]

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Jewish Class to Heal Suffering

March 3, 2010

By Luke V. Rabbi Michele Medwin, Jewish Student Advisor at The Family Foundation School has started a new class to help the Jewish students that have distress in their lives. The class focuses on Healing from Despair, a book written by Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz. The book is comprised of certain sections. The first section [...]

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